When Powerful Men Adore Even More Powerful Women

I first met JJ in November 2021, his first message to me;

"I'm a 59 yo sub. For many, many years i've been seeking a manipulative, cruel, smarter Owner. SomeOne to worship and fear. SomeOne who'd progressively deprive me of my personal, social and sex lives to have me live for Her in a constant state of adoration and terror. A Goddess able to transform me and make whatever subhuman loser, sissy, dog or object She would see fit."

At the same time he told me his full name and sent a photo, along with a photo of his bank card also to identify himself - this is common practice with men who look for full control and domination. I did not ask for this, it was offered to me.

It is common practice for men who have a blackmail fetish, which JJ has and pays many Prodommes over the years to cater to his fetish (evidence of that further below on his public Fetlife account).

It took me all of five minutes to deduce that he works in high level government role and of course knowledge is power, which is why he willingly gave me this information.

TOTAL POWER EXCHANGE

JJ makes it very clear on his NSFW Twitter profile that he is looking for TPE; which is an abbreviation for Total Power Exchange. This is a relationship with a dominant woman where she takes full control over his life and choices.

The problem with this though, is that JJ is quite the brat, and despite constantly approaching me multiple times for over a year, he tries to resist my control at every turn. This dirty little moth cannot resist contacting me to dance around my flame, while brattishly complaining about my control when he experiences it.

You cannot have it both ways JJ, either you want the flame or you do not.

It is at this point of our relations I began to refer to JJ as 'Moth' and from that moment onwards, JJ began to create social media profiles using the 'Moth' name I had given it.

Recently JJ said yet again that he wants to be free from my domination services and was incredibly rude and threatening about it too. He was immediately blocked on social media on the 14th February due to his toxic and threatening behaviour and I have not contacted him since.

Despite him suggesting he wanted to be free from my domination services, and indeed also blocked on social media by me in response to his wishes, he still sends me gifts via Wishtender repeatedly after this event - three gifts have been sent, in the face of my silence.

It appears to have been some sort of attempt to regain my attention and control. This is a very confused man who doesn't seem to quite know what he wants, and it has become toxic over time as it has become threatening.

At this point, given that I have blocked JJ twice in the last year to remove myself from our relationship because I do not enjoy his erratic mind changing - the fact that he continues to contact me anyway, follow me on social media and now in March send me money that I have not asked him to send - one could constitute this as notable harassment.

Something JJ should consider.

When a woman says she is terminating your relationship, blocks you, but you then keep sending her money (three Wishtender sends) and messages, this is a man harassing a woman.

Always Do As You Are Told

Any man who wants my domination absolutely must do as they are told without complaint. JJ unfortunately complained too much, too many times.

The fact I am ignoring JJ following his request to be free, and have ignored him for five weeks solid (no matter how many Wishtender sends he has indulged in after he was sent away and blocked) - proves that JJ is chasing me, not the other way around, and he doesn't seem to want to stop.

You have been set free by me immediately on request on the 14th February, and I have not contacted you since, we have no relationship, so why are you still sending me messages and money via Wishtender?

This is harassment at this point, especially as it is littered with threats in messages and emails.

JJ was told him many times - if you do not want domination, do not contact me, it's as simple as that. Yet he is contacting me again, after being blocked, through multiple Wishtender sends over the course of March.

If you refuse to leave me alone JJ, and continue to harass me, well of course I'm going to start talking about it, as I am in this blog.

This blog is a chronicle of my evidence of his harrassing behaviour, for my own protection.

JJ is a man very much in control at work, he is the head of the workplace - perhaps this is the reason that he flips back and forth between wanting my control, and not wanting my control.

I don't care how important that 'Thing' thinks it is at work, it does not get to speak to me like it did, and it should stop it's repeated harassment.

My response to JJ on Wishtender today after his three sends to my account.

Protection For Mistresses

A serious note for any professional Mistress reading this. If you come into contact with this man, asking for Domination (which is a major fetish of his), I urge you to stay away.

He is toxic, threatening and will repeatedly contact you for Domination services, pay for those services and then claim he was forced into said services against his will. He is not a client you want, I assure you.

March 2026 Update! Cyber Blackmail Fetish!

Since I wrote the blog above in 2023, Moth has continued to obsess about me over those years and paid for my professional Domination services many many times via direct bank transfer and by use of Tipfunder.

It only ever refers to itself as 'Moth' now in all the social media profiles it creates to stalk me on, and inevitably always contacting me from those accounts, begging to be my slave.

Just as in the past Moth repeatedly contacts me, sends money for pay for the honour of becoming my submissive slave and under my professional control and then runs away in panic after a few weeks. This is a strange but common routine between us now, and Moth's obsession with blackmail and cyber crime continues to fester within it's mind and it's actions.

Below are screen grabs of it contacting me again recently - begging to become my slave again (as it does every few months, and has done for years), this time via Fetlife.

You will see from it's account activity how much it remains consumed by cyber blackmail and humiliation and is following lots of blackmail kink Dommes on Fetlife.

Note that this Fetlife account activity is public and these are screen grabs of it's public account there.

Obsessed With Cyber Blackmail!

As you can see from the Fetlife groups Moth has joined recently, it is OBSESSED with cyber blackmail and humiliation, as of course, this is it's long term fetish. You also see it following many professional Dommes in addition to myself. Me, being it's main obsession.

Some of the groups below you see Moth joining recently on Fetlife are Cyber Slavery and Submission, Sissy Feminization and Blackmail, and Cyber Humiliation.

It also has a new Bluesky account that it created so that it could contact me on my own recently created Bluesky account.

These message exchanges on Bluesky over the early part of 2026, are of course full of Moth begging to be owned and controlled by me.